Monday, February 21

Ecuador - Canoa

So, I'm not so good at this making-time-for-blogging stuff, but I have another post. Currently, the first 2 weeks of this trip exists as a bullet-point list of things I'm trying to remember, but halfway through we took a trip out to the coast to the beach town of Canoa.

Since arriving in the highlands, or Sierra, of Ecuador we’ve all been excited about the prospect of the coast, surfing, and laying on the beach. After many discussions and reading numerous articles and opinions, we decided on visiting Canoa, a small beach town that sits almost directly west of Quito. We had decided on renting a car instead of testing our luck with the bus, and although the trip ended up costing a little bit more per person, I feel it was worth the extra cost, despite not seeming so at first.

When we arrived to pick up our Hertz at the airport location we realized, after almost a half hour of the slowest rental car processing I can remember, that they were going to charge us almost double what we had anticipated. Discouraged and frantic, we raced around to the other car companies to learn what they would charge us for a similar trip. We found a good prospect with unlimited mileage, covering the hidden $160 Hertz didn’t exactly tell us about in advance, and quickly set off on our 6-7 hour journey with 5 grown men in a Chevy Aveo. Those of you familiar with car rentals may recognize that name under “Compact” as you scroll to the larger, more luxurious options. Keep in mind that one of us is 6’ 7”. I’ll leave the rest for your imagination.

We set out from the airport and learned very quickly that Quito’s roads don’t really have speed limits – it’s more like whatever you can manage without hitting pedestrians who cross anytime they choose or one of the large public transit buses who appear to have learned the same lesson my father taught me as a young boy regarding the rule of tonnage. As a family sailing in the San Francisco Bay, he taught us the concepts of “right of way” and how to be courteous sailors.However, he also reminded us that even when we have the right of way, our 35’ family sailboat didn’t really stand a chance against the much larger, and slower tankers. With this in mind we cautiously made our way through the city, and Jimmy quickly assimilated to Ecua-driving, including the requisite horn usage every 4-5 seconds.

I’m writing this post in retrospect, and between the trip there and back I’m not sure I’ve ever had a more exciting, adventurous, or scary road-trip in my life. We took two different routes, both of which presented unique challenges and experiences. On the way down we took the less traveled road, traveling through small cities packed with moto-taxis and people on bicycles reminiscent of Calcutta India, and at other moments we found ourselves on the brand new “paved” road that after 5 miles continued as a dirt-road lined with potholes the size of small craters. Not even an hour into our trip we realized how interesting it would be, as we were descending the winding mountain roads, with large buses and chivas bearing down on us, dodging potholes that threatened to swallow our poor compact rental. When we finally reached the coast we decided to take a break in Pedernales for some grub. I’ve never felt so out of place in Ecuador, and we’re still not even sure what it was. Maybe it started with getting the Aveo high-centered on a speed bump the size of a small pyramid, or maybe it was sitting down at a restaurant only to realize it was a $25 a plate parrillada (Ecua BBQ) restaurant and telling them we were going someplace else. Regardless, we finally found a way out of town (the only road south out of town was initially a one way in the wrong direction – it was like a casino with no feasible exit!) and got the heck out of dodge. Hungry and tired, we continued down the coast towards our destination, on another newly paved road…which coincidentally was not-so-paved; it was interesting to say the least. I’ll comment on one more aspect about the drive down – speed bumps. Ecua-bumps can seemingly appear anywhere, anytime, and without any prior notice. Most often we found them scattered along the main roads near small towns, and it only took once to realize that we needed to watch for them more carefully. Our poor Aveo almost went airborne when we didn’t see one coming, and there were absolutely no signs of warning.Excellent planning. I think they might be built up locally so that the local Ecuas can sell off any parts that fall off the cars. We’ll never know for sure.

Arriving in Canoa, it was soon apparent that the trouble was very worth it. El Hotel Bambu was literally right on the beach, with the only possible downside being the neighboring bars which played incessant Reggaeton 22 hours of every day (between 4 and 6 am). We surfed, layed in hammocks, read, web-chatted, played pool, and surfed some more – it was fantastic. The local food was excellent, especially the seafood and fresh fruit / juice. Sunday came much too quickly, and we bid farewell to the beach. Opting for the supposedly better roads of a different route, and wanting to see more of the country, we set out towards Bahia to take the south roads back towards Quito.

These roads were ripe with similar surprises of potholes that doubled as small swimming pools, but the scariest part of the trip home was attempting to get to the town Chone, which according to our map was connected to our path by what was noted as a “major road”. Major road my eye – it turned out to be muddy mess thanks to the rain. After making it up a somewhat treacherously steep portion, we were able to ask directions; continuing would not be possible, but we found a detour and made it down without major damage to the faithful Aveo. We pushed her hard this trip, and despite rain, mud, speed bump-mountains, fog, 12,000 foot passes, construction, and surrounding Ecua-drivers, we made it back to Quito in one piece. As Justin and I talked about it in our room later, we realized that our travel was full of miracles and Heavenly Father watching over us, and I was grateful for those tender mercies that helped us enjoy ourselves safely.

5 pobrecitos in an Aveo


This chicken was still alive...

Outdoor pool table - Jimmy using their version of a billiards rake, Ecua-style

Surfing the beach break at Canoa

We almost caught a ride with these guys, but decided against it

Friday, February 18

recent update

We have started another big trip that will last about three weeks total, so before I get too far behind I figured I would do a quick recap of life lately. This is what we've been up to in the month of February, in no particular order:
 Testing out graham crackers. I'm honestly not sure if any were swallowed. She seemed to suck on them and then move onto the next piece! But it's good entertainment at least.
 L is 100% loving his "Sporties for Shorties" and gymnastics class. We go to each one once a week and he is in heaven. It's so cute to watch him get all excited to go, and the minute he sees his teacher "Miss Ginger" he yells for her. We are diggin' the recreation thing!
 All of us are longingly looking outside, waiting for spring. I feel ya, Lady-L.
 Sucking our thumbs out of curiosity. She's definitely a pacifier-baby still, but loves her thumb at random times.
Skyping with Daddy a LOT. L loves to give him (i.e. the computer) high fives and tickles. It's pretty cute.

Making dozens of funny faces! All of these were taken within 60 seconds. She's pretty impressive!

Blowing LOTS of raspberries. Especially in church, during naps, and meal times. Oh so fun! :)

Growing teeth. 

And learning how to share.

It's a pretty good life, I'll be honest. 

Wednesday, February 16

look-a-likes

We recently introduced some easy finger-foods to Lady-LE, and it brought back all sorts of fun memories from when L first tried graham crackers. Oh man it's crazy how much time flies and how cute my babies are. 

They look quite a bit a like, don't they?

Sunday, February 13

race for the cure

Back in June last year (a couple weeks before Lady-L was born), we found out that Ryan's dad was diagnosed with Stage 4 Lymphoma. It was scary, unknown, really advanced, overwhelming, intimidating, and difficult. Ry's parents told us over the phone, and when they came out to meet Lady-L when she was born we still didn't have many answers as to treatment. Bit by bit questions were answered and he started chemotherapy. The cancer had spread all over, but they were hopeful and optimistic. 

A few months later, in October, we received another phone call from Ryan's parents telling us they discovered that my mother-in-law had breast cancer. Once again it was scary, overwhelming, and difficult. My father-in-law is such a good man, and loves to use humor to help ease tension or worries, so he would say, "Ya know, we're best friends and we like to do things together!" Cancer included. 
{Lady-L's blessing day, 07.18.10}
{Lady-L is named after Ryan's father}
So right in the middle of my father-in-law's chemo treatments, my mother-in-law had a double mastectomy and reconstruction.. Results were good that she was cancer free, and recovery was the last thing to concentrate on. It continues to be the goal as she has experienced four surgeries since then trying to combat infections and complications. 

Recovery is this elusive term that seems to keep hovering over them but never quite settling. However, we are all incredibly grateful for their progress and continue to be hopeful for this to be done with. It has been a difficult time for Ry and I to be so far from family, and we cherish those days spent with them over Thanksgiving. Our faith and hope in the Plan of Happiness has deepened as has our love for one another. 

Why share this now? Because I think that I am the luckiest person in the world to know and love these two phenomenal people and to have their love in return. And my sister-in-law is challenging us all to sign up for a Race for the Cure this year and I wanted to extend the challenge to everyone I know. She has started a blog sharing a little bit of their story, in addition to a growing list of all those who sign up to run. I love this idea and loving tribute to two of the most amazing people I have ever met. Ryan and I will DEFINITELY be running for them, and I hope that you will too. 
{G & C with all their grandchildren, 11.26.10}
You can find my sister-in-law's blog HERE if you would like to read more and sign up.
We love you Nonnie and PopPop!

Saturday, February 12

thank you

I'm not sure who you are, but thank you for delivering these sweet flowers from my best friend. It means so much to know that I'm not alone. What a wonderful Valentine's day surprise!

My heart is so full!

early valentine

Since Ry would be gone this year for Valentine's day, I gave him his present before he left back in January. I love any and all food-related gifts, so here's what I gave him: a RootBeer Sampler! Now we can finally be root beer connoisseurs! We broke into it that night, and I think I'm as excited to try all the different varieties as Ryan is.
Since then I had to go back to a particular store where I found two more varieties! I couldn't help but pick them up, even though they weren't included in the original 12. Here's to many, many more date nights where we can sample our rootbeer varieties together!

Friday, February 11

seven months

I feel like through this past month Lady-L has all of the sudden decided to show us her personality and it is SO fun. She is growing and learning, and I love her to pieces. I can't believe how fast the time goes.

Few Favorites:
-loves to blow raspberries; especially when she's tired. They are the strongest in the middle of the night.
-she smiles with her eyes just as much as with her mouth. I love watching her eyes light up when she's happy.
-laughing at mommy's funny faces
-incredibly responsive to facial expressions
-takes a bottle! After months of trying, she finally took one particular sippy (only one - we tried lots of different bottles and sippys). Then after a couple weeks of taking only one sippy, she finally caught the concept and has now graduated to a bottle (I know ... a little backwards. But I like bottles better. So there.)! Hooray!
-giggles a ton at big brother
-rolls over both ways, but still doesn't chose to do it that often
-obsessed with her tongue
-said goodbye to swaddling a few nights ago. She likes to have the blanket around her belly/legs though, so we still do that.
-sleeping still is a little rough. We decided to focus on the bottle first, and then the sleeping. One down, one to go! 
-sitting up all by herself
-sometimes sucks her thumb and thinks it's pretty dang cool
-I am really questioning the need for teeth. She seems to be always in pain these days.
-rubs her left ear lately whenever she's tired
-has two teeth


These two now love to sit up next to each other and play. It is darling to watch.

 The one food item that continues to be a "no" is squash. She always does this squished up nose face and clamps her mouth shut. funny girl.
This was earlier in the month practicing our sitting-up position. She's a pro now.

Angelic. Honestly. I love her. 

Monday, February 7

An Early Valentine's Tribute

For those of you who frequent our blog, you've likely noticed that the majority (read all) of our blog posts are courtesy of my talented, creative wife. She has a way with written word that still amazes me. Admittedly, I am lazy and inconsistent when it comes to recording memories, journaling, letter-writing, and pretty much anything of the sort. However, I am trying to break this mold I've created for myself.

Some, but probably not most of you know that I currently am living in Quito, Ecuador for the month of February, currently completing a Global Health elective in my 4th year of medical school. What does that mean exactly? Well, I received some funding to come and experience medicine in a developing country, practice my Spanish, and gain an ever greater appreciation for the Latin culture. I hope this will help me in my future practice as many patients of Emergency Departments around the country are Latin, many of whom speak little or no English.

(And finally getting to the reason for this post...) This fantastic experience would not be possible without the complete support of an incredibly selfless, strong, and loving wife. There were times leading up to this trip that I doubted my desire to leave, for various reasons, and although I'm sure she would love to not be a single parent right now, she never let me give up on what I had talked about doing for so long. I often tell people that Heather is my better-3/4, and being here makes me realize that the ratio is even more skewed. I can't possibly express here exactly what I feel for her, nor how my love for her has grown since being apart, but I will attempt to thank her for 5 1/2 years of being steadfast, energetic, fun, loving, patient, and again, completely selfless. And she has only grown in these attributes over the years.

As part of this gift, I am going to make a serious effort to record my experiences here in South America. Although we talk almost everyday, I hope that by sitting down and writing my thoughts, I can give her, as well as you readers and myself, some insight into what I am doing. Heather is a record-keeper, so hopefully this will live up to her high standards.

I'll start by giving a quick overview of what's going on, and then will hopefully get into some more detail in later posts.

We arrived in Quito on Sunday, January 31, and reported for orientation and clinical duties at 7:30 the following morning. So far, it's been a blast, although the clinical rotation isn't quite what I had anticipated, and some kinks are still being worked out. I'm working in the ICU of a large, social security hospital in Quito that receives some of the sickest patients in the country. Granted, most of these patients aren't very talkative, but it's been a growing experience, and I'll hopefully get more patient interaction in the coming weeks. I definitely have ample opportunities to speak Spanish with the residents and doctors; Intensive Care Medicine was hard enough in English, and being thrown into a busy unit has been tough and challenging, but strangely rewarding as well. The teams are great, and we even have had some opportunities to teach them some techniques that we use in the US and at OSU, specifically ultrasound.

Our days typically start around 615 with an Ecua-shower, followed by breakfast at home with our host family (pictures to come). We catch the crazy-scary buses around 7 and arrive at the hospital around 730 to round and help out until 12. We then bus to the Spanish-school, find a place to eat lunch, and then have Spanish classes from 2-6. Despite serving a Spanish-speaking mission and minoring in the language in college, I've forgotten quite a bit and it's nice to be able to learn and practice from Ivan, our teacher. I say we because I traveled here with a med school buddy Justin Wheeler, along with 3 other guys from our class. Justin and I are staying with the same family, and the other 3 are spread between 2 other homes.

Since this post is already forever-long I'll finish by saying again that this experience would be possible without Heather, who I miss dearly every day. I will be honest and admit that some very manly tears have been shed since I have been here, even just thinking about my beautiful family in Ohio. I love you and look forward to seeing you.


A view of the ED entrance to the hospital


A traditional Ecuadorean dinner in La Mariscal


A view of our breakfast spread - fresh fruit every day!


Our room, and a faux-studying Justin


The city from our window

Tuesday, February 1

ice storm

One thing that I surprisingly have fallen in love with while here in Ohio are ice storms. The first one I experienced was while catching the bus down to campus for my internship our first winter here. We pass by a golf course on the way, and the sun was shining. It was absolutely breathtaking to see the sun shining through all the branches of the trees - it reflected light in every direction possible and completely had me mesmerized. I had yet to feel that winter was beautiful here in Ohio until that moment. 

That one single memory has sustained me through subsequent snow and ice storms we have had. There have been more sun-shining-on-the-ice days, and I try to soak them in. We woke up to our first ice storm of the winter this morning, and with the first glance out the window I had that craving to go outside and take a picture. Here are a few that I took.
It amazes me that water can freeze like this.  

The brick wall outside our back door was covered by ice. Seriously?! So cool!

 Take a look at the small cable holding up our little bird house. All the telephone wires are covered as well, with hundreds of little icicles hanging down.
I love how each icicle is unique and marvelous. I love how it invites the light into itself. And I love how it continues to change shape as it grows and melts. Always changing and always beautiful. 
Love it! 
If only I were adventurous enough to take L on the ice skating rink outside our front door. Maybe this afternoon? We shall see.